Gone are the days of wrapping each other in toilet paper! At Specifically Particular, we curate showers that deeply honor the transformative nature of these life changes. Drawing inspiration from diverse global traditions, we create immersive experiences that allow guests to authentically and meaningfully participate in celebrating the guest of honor.

Each year lived is a testament to the lessons learned and wisdom gained along life's journey. It's a profound privilege to share life’s path with another- be it friends, family, or life partners- and one that merits recognition. We craft celebrations that center the uniqueness of each individual and the shared stories woven into the fabric of their travels.

Too often, the true spirit of a wedding can get lost amidst the whirlwind of planning and pursuit of picture-perfect moments. At Specifically Particular, we're committed to reclaiming the simplicity and significance of celebrating the union of two people. We plan all aspects of smaller DIY weddings, from cozy, backyard gatherings to magical, remote elopements. We also help ritualize larger weddings where the major planning elements are already in place. We’re here to help you reclaim meaning on one of the most memorable days of your life!

In modern culture, the art of grieving often feels as though it has been erased from our collective memory. Our stumbling attempts at navigating the process overshadow the much needed space for unfettered emotion. And yet, death holds just as much significance as birth or marriage, an inevitable passage for us all. At Specifically Particular, we return to the ritualization of death, providing space for loved ones to fully and rightfully grieve and to move through one of life’s most difficult transitions with authenticity and meaning.